Hello Scrapbooking Blogging Friends!
This month the Scrapworthy Lives - The Happiness Project - focuses on the concept of "PAY ATTENTION!"
Author Gretchen Rubin's "Pay Attention" month in the "The Happiness Project" included meditation, examining true rules, stimulating the mind in new ways, and keeping a food diary. For me, when I think about paying attention, I can't help but think about how scrapbooking helps me to pay attention to the good things in life.
I also can't help but think about my son's issue with paying attention. He has ADHD - Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. In our family, we have spent a lot of time and attention on his ADHD issues. As a result, I think maybe we are sometimes guilty of paying less attention to my daughter. I made these two scrapbook layouts about paying attention to my daughter:

Journaling: "Mom! Look! Look how high I can swing!" Allison called out across the playground. "Come Here! Come Here! And bring your camera!" Said my 7 year old daughter who normally does not want me snapping her picture all the time. "Did you get it?" She commanded with a smile. "Lay down so I’m on top of the bar!" "Got it" I called back. "I know you think Mac is the only one who has the super-powers to swing high, but I can swing higher!" Allison declared with what seemed like a lot of forethought. Later, when we got home, I came across the scrapbook I had made for my son, Mac, called "Super Mac" which included pictures of him swinging high. I created that book for my son after reading a book called "The Gift of ADHD" which depicts a boy swinging high on a tire swing. Then I realized that maybe Allison was feeling a bit jealous of the attention we give to Mac and his special needs because of his ADHD. Charlie and I are constantly trying to figure out the best way to address the ever changing special needs associated with Mac’s ADHD; and so it must feel to Allison like all of our attention is on her big brother. Allison, the little sister, has generally been so well behaved and is quieter by comparison, so she tends to get a little less attention. This exchange and these pictures of my daughter remind me that she also needs lots of attention and that she too has special gifts and needs. Now I make extra special sure that I am giving my full attention to Allison every day for a part of the day and we have special "Girl Dates" which we have always had but now take on a deeper meaning. Allison: I love you my girl. Mommy (photos January 2011 / journaling October 2011).

Journaling: Allison, My Sweet Girl, You are always saying: "Look at Me!" "Find Me!" "Play With Me!" "Chase Me!" "Watch Me!" "Listen to Me!" I was recently talking to your friend Aspen’s Mom and she declared "Oh! Your Daughter is an EXTROVERT!" after only talking to you for a few minutes - and I realized she was so right! You love being the CENTER OF ATTENTION and you love having company no matter what you are doing Yes, my girl, I’m not sure how this didn’t occur to me much sooner, You are a charming, friendly, and authoritative little extrovert! After realizing this, I did a Myers Briggs Test for kids and your personality type is EFJ - Extraverted-Feeling-Judging; the test results are on the back of this page. They say that you are well suited to becoming a CAREGIVER which is interesting since you have always said you’d like to be a doctor or dentist or animal doctor, those professions will suit your personality type perfectly. I LOVE YOU and your type and I love it when you ask me to take your picture like you did this day on the slide! Love, Mommy 10/2011
On both layouts, I created circles {with nesting die cut circles on one layout and with brads and the naturally framed circle of the slide in the other layout} around my daughter so that she would be the center of attention:

Ok, now go pay attention to the other Scrapworthy Lives Happiness Project Blogs!
Here is the Blog Roll List:
1. http://blog.funmama.net
2. http://kissandtellscrapbooking.typepad.com
3. http://blog.mshanhun.com
4. http://xnomads.typepad.com
5. http://adriennefalzon.blogspot.com
6. http://nickylamarche.typepad.com
7. http://www.valerieserfozo.com
8. http://scrapsandsass.blogspot.com
9. http://www.scrapworthylives.com
10. http://scrapyourlife.net
11. http://mahsliceoflife.blogspot.com
12. www.MichelleRoycroft.blogspot.com
13. http://www.kimberlykalil.com
14. http://www.1200somemiles.com
15. www.scrappingmojo.blogspot.com
16. http://www.yourmemoryconnection.com
Enjoy the Blog Hop & Pay Attention!
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